It's fine to be broken.

 

Life is a sinosoidal curve.
Looking at borning baby we all think that life is so fantastic and joyfull.when we reach at the stage of adulthood then a cloud of problems suddenly appear just like the rainy cloud in the summer,Unexpected and unpredictable.

you meet the different kind of people initally everything goes smooth.and you started assumption about future.you feel like everything is perfect.You started approching that person more and more .you start look her\him after more than yourself.You started giving extra love and care.

wait , Don’t think that giving someone extra love care and support is wrong.it’s absolutely good but while giving attention to other you forget love yourself,you foget that you are too a human being who need to be love care and attention.you forget to love yourself.and when you foget loving yourself,

at subcouncios level you start believing that I am nothing without that or those person.when they go from your life ,you suddenly break.the expectatios you were made that time when they were with you hit you hard again and again and you go deep down in the ocean of sorrow.

well,Its not a new thing, happen with everyone.And after that stage two kind of people appear.

one who assume that i can’t do anything I’m nothing now .and there growth stops

And other one that rewind the past not to blame that person or situation but to observe the constrain and take the lesson. Just ask yourself,who kill you the most?and the answer is your own expectation.

And I think being broken once in life is important. when you are broken you see the certain things carefully ,you evolve and you come up with better human being and then you realise the theory that everythings happen for a reason....